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Let me be. It took a long time to work up the courage to say goodbye, but I did; and that is it. My heart does not always agree with my mind, but it was a call that had to be made. It was done; I have made my choice, now let it be. It appears that love or falling in love at least, makes one a little dumb. It makes one do silly things; and what you are doing now, is silly. You claim you care for me; then care enough not to torment me. Like me, find the courage to say goodbye, then never look back again. I assume that all human beings fall in love more than once in a life. I agree that we don’t always know better when we devote ourselves to someone. That bond however should be honoured, more so, by those that is not part of it. The ring on finger is a sign that I need your help to remain faithful. There comes a time when marriage is less attractive than the alternative. Marriage eventually leads to a monotonous state; then, anything looks better than that. The bond between husband and wife is stronger than you might think. How do you decide to destroy something so pure? No… let’s admit it now, a large part of falling in love is self-centered. It is about what we want, even at the cost of someone else’s happiness. How is that fair; how can a man say no to a young beautiful girl? It is hard and I was almost caught; luckily my partner wanted me enough to fight back. So, you girls might think all the good guys are married; that may very well be true. But, what real great guy will leave his wife for you; then, when will it be your turn? I am married and wear my ring all the time; why, just because I like jewelry? No, though we are easy enough to distract; we should rather be left alone. |
| By : Thys Groesbeek |